I have had an ectopic pregnancy (fallopian tube pregnancy as you described it) and NEVER EVER EVER would I say that I chose to “abort” my baby! That is offensive on every level. An ectopic pregnancy can only end in one way, with a ruptured fallopian tube. This leads to the death of the mother AND the baby. I LOST my baby, I did not abort it. I was fortunate (through the grace of God) to have survived the ordeal of emergency surgery due to a ruptured tube. To have someone even bring the word abortion into the conversation is ignorant! Do you want to say that a woman who miscarries and needs a d and c, aborts her baby too? Rationalize your own way of thinking any way you like but leave ectopic pregnancy out of the abortion conversation!